Guys, 5 ways to make her want you

Want to get her to notice you? If the uberbabe you can’t stop thinking about doesn’t even know your name, take a look at these tips – she’ll soon be obsessing over you:

 

Do the robot

 

When men dance, anything can happen: the good, the bad and the ugly. Whatever your style though, make sure you get up and give it a go. Dancing is an easy way for women to gauge your personality. It’s simple to see who is arrogant and who is shy on the dance floor, which will mean that you’re more likely to get a good match. Whether you think you’re a good dancer or a terrible one, remember this: those who dance symmetrically are considered to be more attractive. So make sure your moves are even the next time you do the robot or the Macarena.

 

Get an Aston-

 

It may not be fair, but if you want the girl you like to notice you, you need to get some status. Women are attracted to men with money, power and success. They’re biologically wired to pick up on signals that suggest you possess any of these things. So what about if you don’t have money, power or success? Don’t worry. You just need to act like you do. Never put yourself down in front of the girl you like and act confident, not cocky. Dress well when you see her and don’t seek approval when you give an opinion. You need to seem very sure of yourself to win the status game.

 

 

Eyes for her only-

 

Every single person has at least one thing they are insecure about, whether it is an issue with weight, nose size or something a little bit more intimate. That’s why, in a potential date scenario, you need to make sure that you have eyes only for the girl you’re chasing. If a stunning girl struts by in a tight skirt and long tanned legs ignore her and focus on the girl you’ve be daydreaming over. If you can, turn your back on the hot woman and look into the eyes of the girl you’re trying to get. She’ll pick up on this and feel great, whilst you’ll be moved onto her list of potentials.

 

Make her laugh-

 

Guys who can make women laugh rarely fail to pull. Even ugly guys get with gorgeous girls if they can make a few jokes.  Apparently, women love funny men because they consider them to be more honest and more intelligent than their non-funny friends. If you’re not naturally a guy who can make people laugh, don’t pull out the joke book, it will knock your confidence back to the dark ages when your knock-off joke fails. Instead try to think of funny things that have happened to you or TV shows that make you laugh. Talk about these things instead.

 

You time-

 

It’s harsh but pay attention to this advice: no-one will want you if you don’t like yourself. Confidence is the biggest turn-on for women and if you don’t have enough of it you won’t be able to pull or enjoy a relationship. This is something that a lot of guys forget about, but it’s important. Dating is vicious and the more knock-backs you receive the lower your confidence gets. Build your confidence by making time for other things in your life; a new project, a new sport or hobby. Something that makes you feel great no matter what is happening in your life.

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The Real Meaning of Romance!

It is very useful to take time and pause for conscious reflection upon the real meaning of romance in intimate relationships. From the time we are young children, we listen wide-eyed to fairy tales of beautiful princesses being swept off their feet by charming princes who take them away to a better life where they live ''happily ever after.'' Their romance is intense, passionate, dramatic, intoxicating and transformative. Their love is able to surmount all sorts of obstacles - financial and ethnic differences, monsters and goblins, evil kings and queens - because they know in their hearts they have found the one true love they will spend the rest of their lives with. As we grow up, we hear this wonderful theme repeated endlessly in cartoons, movies, romance novels and hit songs. We grow very fond of this sweet tale, and can't wait until the day when Cupid's arrow hits its mark squarely in our hearts. 
And then it happens! We look into another's eyes and something wonderful and mysterious overtakes us. We feel a great joy and spontaneity that we've never felt before. Innocently and completely, we surrender to this awesome energy. We have found our soul mate, our one true partner who will fulfill all our needs unconditionally, and our hearts and souls will dance and sing for all eternity. 
But then it dawns on us, sometimes slowly and imperceptibly, other times instantly and bluntly: there will be no ''happily ever after'' in this relationship. We experience conflict, anger, disappointment and hurt. What was once easy and effortless is now difficult and painful. What happened? 

Alas, the story of romantic love as a road map for an entire relationship is a myth that leads almost everyone to despair. The wonderful infatuation we experience in the beginning of a new romantic relationship is in actuality a period of grace bestowed upon us to give us a vision of possibilities of who we can be and how we can love. Our hearts open fully, our fears giving way to remarkable acts of tenderness and unselfish caring. Easily and spontaneously, both people temporarily become the lovers they always knew they could be. Romantic love is real and genuine, but only as an initial visionary stage of intimate connection. In fact, research by Dr. Liberty Kovacs shows that romantic love is by far the shortest stage in long-term relationships. Inevitably, as it is supposed to, something happens and suddenly we are back in reality, in a new stage. The effortless flow of romance is replaced by conscious, deliberate acts of love which require effort, commitment and inconvenience. 
When this shift occurs, we have several choices. We can act like a victim, blaming the universe for setting things up this way. It's really not fair that love fades away after tantalizing us with effortless bliss. Or we may blame our partner, ending the relationship after concluding that this was not really our soul mate. If, however, we are committed to an awake, conscious life, we may recognize this passing with some sadness but understand that the real relationship and the real learning has now begun. We may recall the words of Thoreau who said, ''If you have built castles in the air, that is fine. Now put a foundation under them.'' We build the foundation brick by brick, loving act by loving act, with conscious awareness and intention. And in so doing, we truly honor the vision that our romance gave us and create an even deeper and more genuine romantic connection with our partner. As we confront the struggles and limitations in our ability to love fully, we realize the true grace of intimate relationship: we are given the exact situations and opportunities we most need for the next steps on our journey of awakening. 

By being conscious and open to the messages and lessons we most need to receive, each stage of each relationship can be a wonderful vehicle for waking up. For example, if you consistently attract a certain type of unhealthy person into your life, open your heart and spirit without judgment and listen deeply. What is still unresolved within you that you need to keep re-experiencing this unhealthy behavior or feeling again and again? What about this energy is still somehow gratifying or reaffirming something within you? Is there an old part of you which still believes you deserve this? What positive shifts can you make to heal that energy within you so you can move on to attract greater love, greater fulfillment and deeper connection? 

In a conscious, loving, intimate connection, partners are present with one another without judgment or unrealistic expectations. When you both understand the deeper reasons you have come into each others' lives, you can let go of the need to make your relationship be a certain way and allow it to be what it is. You can allow your fears and wounds to come up and be healed in the soothing, loving presence of your partner. And you can walk away from the relationship if and when your inner knowingness (and not your fears) tells you it is time. 

We are all born with an innate capacity to connect and love deeply. Intimate relationships are great teachers, and they bring us magical experiences at every stage of relationship. Beneath the Valentine's Day myths lie powerful opportunities for the most thrilling romance of all: waking up to the fully conscious life we are here to live.


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Veteran magazine 'Newsweek' good and bad places for women to have a survey. Survey were found to

To which women are empowered in the country where their life - is the quality? Iceland for women, the

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Have been taken better than India. India on its way to becoming a global economic power, but most women

Are largely untouched by change.

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Has not improved the status of women in India. In India still 39 per cent of women and men beating up wife

Justifies. Being a victim of physical violence, only 35 percent of the women gives the police report. Delivery

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Need to strengthen. Under the law should treat them better. To health, education and politics

Will come in to play.

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Have become old and infirm people, many incidents of torture and misery made newspaper headlines last week. Delhi

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Such incidents are happening across the country almost everyday. Police, law, etc. and still come up on the complaint

To the right solution, it is not necessary. Older people working for change Helpej India Indian families

Conducted a study on the state of nature and the elderly. Accordingly, the lower economic class families refer to

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After solving these problems, we can arrive at the point where they desire to their elders

Give land to live dignified and healthy life.

Creating an Honest and truthful Relationship

One of the greatest joys and challenges of conscious, intimate relationships is that when we answer the call to love, we are invited to expand upon who we think we are, who we have been and what we feel and think we are capable of. We are invited by forces larger than ourselves to become a more complete, fuller, more loving human being. We are asked to participate in a process that is at once mysterious, exhilarating and terrifying.
When we answer this most compelling call, a part of us dives headlong into the fray, eager for the possibility of a deeper, more intimate connection than we have experienced before. Recent research indicates that during the early stages of being in love, our brains may secrete a powerful amphetamine-like neurotransmitter called phenylethylamine, bathing our central nervous system with an overdose of nature's most potent love cocktail. We are filled with ecstasy and vision and all our circuits are brilliantly lit up. In this heavenly state we are capable of extraordinary acts of unselfish love and caring that occur almost effortlessly.


When we return to earth, however, we are left with our vision of who we can be and the reality of who we think we are. The call to love is always to go deeper and farther than before and if we choose to answer the call, we will inevitably be confronted with a series of choices. One choice is to make a conscious decision of how committed we are to the truth. Have you been committed to truth in your previous relationships? If not, what was the consequence of not committing to truth? And now that you re in a new relationship, are you going to make a conscious commitment for the fullest, deepest, most honest connection you can or are you going to settle for less than that? How far do you want to try to go together? We encourage couples to discuss this openly and consciously, rather than let it play out unconsciously and indirectly as it so often does.

Every time we act and speak from truth, we invite our partner to do the same. Our journey continues to expand and deepen. The equation is simple: Truth = Love = Deeper Connection = Expansion = Greater Opening to Spirit. But if commitment to truth brings such wonderful things to our lives, why is it so rare and so hard? Why are there so many lies, so many affairs, so much hurt and anger being acted out indirectly? Whenever we consider lying to ourselves or our partners, we generally do so to protect some part of ourselves which feels afraid or inadequate. We want to appear better than we are and a little white lie won't hurt anyway, we tell ourselves. It's not really a big deal. What they don't know won't hurt them. We believe it IS a big deal if you compromise and limit the vision of love that the two of you have been called to create. It IS a big deal if you damage the foundation of trust which underlies any successful partnership. It IS a big deal if you re-create patterns of secrets and hiding that you learned in your families of origin. It IS a big deal if you set a precedent of withholding or distorting the honest reality that you experience individually and together. Each time that we distort the truth, we constrict and limit our original call to love and restrict the depth of what we can become. We slip back into the cocoon of our limiting beliefs about ourselves and what we are capable of as human beings.

When we work with couples and encourage them to make a solid commitment to the truth, they often say things like, ''Well I'm afraid to tell her what I really feel... she might leave me'' or ''If he knew that I had done that, he'll hate me forever, so I can't tell him'' or ''If she knew that I wanted to do X, Y and Z sexually, she'd think I was sick.'' At the core, it's always a fear that the truth will not set you free but will unleash a torrent of anger or rejection. But if your relationship cannot handle the truth, then what do you have anyway? If you and your partner are merely colluding with each other to stay in safe territory and avoid difficult issues, then you are settling for much less than what your call to love has invited you to experience.
Commitment to the truth can be uncomfortable and scary at times, but it is also the surest path to ongoing growth and deepening connection available to conscious relationship partners. We encourage everyone to make that commitment and pass it on through words and deeds to your children. If you have struggled with this in the past, be honest about that. And take steps to understand why you might have been less than honest. What healing needs to take place within you so that you no longer need to hide or appear different than who you really are? And remember, the commitment to the truth is not a commitment to always talking about something negative! The truth can be how grateful you feel to be in this relationship or how wonderful it feels to be with someone who shares your vision of an intimate relationship.

We are all capable of greater acts of love and truth than we may believe. We are all capable of being more honest, more clear, more loving, more unselfish. By honoring the original vision that called us to love at this time, we can commit to the truth of what we are experiencing and commit to communicating it to our partners on a regular basis. That is the process that truly will set you and your partner free - to experience the deepest and highest connection possible.


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Differences Between Men and Women

People in relationships often have strong expectations that their partner will be just like they are: exhibit the same attitudes, values,  perceptions and behaviors.  However, we know that you will not change your partner's attitudes and behaviors unless they themselves are motivated to do so.  You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics.  So it is very important to educate yourself as to the basic gender differences which exist between men and women, and accept the fact that the differences are there, they are real, and they are not going away.  In this way you can learn to use the differences as a way to enrich your relationship rather than to damage it.
Are Men and Women really different?   Let's look at the evidence in a variety of areas of life.  Note that these findings are generalizations and summaries that apply to most men or women, but not to all men or all women.
1. PHYSIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES 

• Girls develop right side of brain faster than boys: leads to talking, vocabulary, pronunciation, reading earlier, better memory.

• Boys develop left side faster than girls: visual-spatial-logical skills, perceptual skills, better at math, problem solving, building and figuring out puzzles.

• Girls more interested in toys with faces than boys are; play with stuffed animals and dolls more; boys drawn to blocks or anything that can be manipulated.

• Women use both hemispheres of brain; corpus callosum thicker in women.

2. SOCIAL INFLUENCES
    Studies of infants: 

• Both men and women speak louder to boys than girl infants; they are softer and express more "cooing" with girls. Boys are rarely told they are sweet, pretty, little doll; boys are told they are a pumpkin head or "Hey big guy".

• Boys handled more physically and robustly than girls, bounced around more .

• Girls are caressed and stroked more than boys.

• Up to age 2, mothers tend to talk to and look at their daughters significantly more than than they do with their sons, and make more eye contact with the daughters as well.

• Mothers show a wider range of emotional response to girls than boys. When girls showed anger, mothers faces showed greater facial disapproval than when boys showed anger. May influence why girls grow up smiling more, more social, and better able to interpret emotions than boys.

• Fathers use "Command terms" with boys more than girls; and more than mothers gave.

    Developmental Differences Between Boys and Girls: 

• Nursery rhymes, books and cartoons perpetuate stereotypes,which often promote damsel in distress, frumpy housewife, helpless senior citizen, sexy heroine and swooning cheerleader.

• Girls use more terms of endearment than boys.

• Boys get away with more aggressive antisocial behavior in school and home than girls.

• Girls who act as tomboys are accepted; boys who act like girls are severely reprimanded ("don't cry" "Don't be a sissy").

• Girls tend to talk about other people; secrets in order to bond friendships; and school, wishes and needs.

• Boys talk about things and activities. What they are doing and who is best at the activity.

• Teenage girls talk about boys, clothes and weight.

• Teenage boys talk about sports, mechanics, and function of things.

• age 12-18: biggest event for girls: have a boyfriend

• are 12-18: boys are equally interested in the following: sex, cars and sports.

• This carries into adulthood when women talk about relationships, people, diet, clothing, physical appearance. Men talk about sports, work, money, cars, news, politics, and the mechanics of things.

3. VALUES AND SELF ESTEEM AS ADULTS   
    MEN 

• A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, through success and accomplishment. Achieve goals and prove his competence and feel good about himself.

• To feel good about himself, men must achieve goals by themselves. 

• For men, doing things by themselves is a symbol of efficiency, power and competence.

• In general, men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings.

• Men rarely talk about their problems unless they are seeking "expert" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness.

• Men are more aggressive than women; more combative and territorial.

• Men's self esteem is more career-related.

• Men feel devastated by failure and financial setbacks; they tend to obsess about money much more than women

• Men hate to ask for information because it shows they are a failure.

   WOMEN: 

• Women value love, communication, beauty and relationships.

• A woman's sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They spend much time supporting, nurturing and helping each other. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.

• Personal expression, in clothes and feelings, is very important. Communication is important. Talking, sharing and relating is how a woman feels good about herself.

• For women, offering help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength; it is a sign of caring to give support.

• Women are very concerned about issues relating to physical attractiveness; changes in this area can be as difficult for women as changes in a man's financial status.

• When men are preoccupied with work or money, women interpret it as rejection.

4. OTHER DIFFERENCES 

• Men are more logical, analytical, rational.

• Women are more intuitive, holistic, creative, integrative.

• Men have a much more difficult time relating to their own feelings, and may feel very threatened by the expression of feelings in their presence. This may cause them to react by withdrawing or attempting to control the situation through a display of control and/or power.

• Men are actually more vulnerable and dependent on relationships than women are and are more devastated by the ending, since they have fewer friends and sources of emotional support.

• Men are more at ease with their own angry feelings than women are.

• Women are in touch with a much wider range of feelings than men, and the intensity of those feelings is usually much greater for women than men. As a result of this, many man perceive that women's feelings appear to change quickly; men may find this irrational and difficult to understand.

• Men tend to be more functional in approaching problem-solving; women are aesthetically-oriented in addition to being functional.

• Women tend to be much more sensitive to sounds and smells than men are; and women as such tend to place a greater emphasis on "atmosphere". 

5. CONFLICTS WHICH ARISE DUE TO BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN 

• The most frequent complain men have about women:  Women are always trying to change them.

• The most frequent complaint women have about men: Men don't listen.

• Women want empathy, yet men usually offer solutions.

• When a woman tries to change or improve or correct or give advice to a man, men hear that they are being told that they aren't competent or don't know how to do something or that they can't do something on their own.

• Men often feel responsible or to blame for women's problems.

• Men always assume women want advice and solutions to problems, that that is the best way to be helpful and to show love; women often just want someone to sincerely listen to them.

• Housework: men avoid it, try to get others to do it at all costs, feel demeaned by doing it. For women, cleanliness of house is a manifestation of warm, homey nest. Men and women have different thresholds for cleanliness and dirt.

• Men often try to change a woman's mood when she is upset by offering solutions to her problems, which she interprets as discounting and invalidating her feelings.

• Women try to change men's behavior by offering unsolicited advice and criticism and becoming a home-improvement committee.

6. HOW TO WORK WITH THESE DIFFERENCES 

• When women are upset, it is not the time to offer solutions, though that may be appropriate at a future time when she is calmed down.

• A man appreciates advice and criticism when it is requested. Men want to make improvements when they feel they are being approached as a solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.

• Men have great needs for status and independence (emphasis on separate and different); women have needs for intimacy and connection (emphasis on close and same).

• Women need to receive caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance.

• Women are motivated when they feel special or cherished.

• Men need to receive trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement.

• Men are motivated when they feel needed.   A man's deepest fear is that he is not good enough or not competent enough, though he may never express this.

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Sexual harassment is disturbing us

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Sexual harassment is the most disturbing, threatening, and violating form of violence against women.

Sexual harassment is the most disturbing, threatening, and violating form of violence against women. In all areas of life women are overthrown and suppressed by men with their power and masculine behavior. In media one such case is reported every week and so many women are put down to knees with embarrassment and depression. Apart from the known reports on media there are many hidden and thrown away cases where the dignity of a woman is squeezed out of the soul and they are left with deep psychological marks.

There are various forms of sexual harassment including the quid pro quo, hostile work environment, and violation of human rights. Quid pro quo is a Latin term that means exchange of goods or services in equal amount or degree. As the term implies, it is a form of harassment that seeks sexual favors in return of work benefits like promotion, less pressurized work, and increase of salary. This is the most explicit kind of behavior in the modern era where many consent the proposal in order to quench their need of money and status. Hostile work environment is a more persistent form wherein physical contact, staring at women, uncivilized remarks, and indecent images make the environment worst and hostile to work in. Violation of human rights directly caters to any kind of acts that defines sexual harassment, rape, and sexual abuse. With all this how can be woman be free and secure in her own country? The security and dignity of women especially at workplace is at stake if all this continues years after.

Does anyone have an idea what kind of impact this kind of abuse leave on a woman’s hart and mind? If no then speak to the victims of sexual harassment. They are the best speakers to narrate their story of insult, threat, terror, and depression. After that one disgusting incident in their life they continuously live in an atmosphere of peril and fear. The feeling of rejection, insecurity, and insult suck out their souls. Till date there are many women in the country who have endured such kind of harassment. Out of these countless, some start living a dead life, some throw away all their dreams and desires, some take up loneliness as their best companion, and some even take up the act of suicide as their last resort.

Does all this happen to prove the power of men? Or it takes place to show women that they are weak and subjugated? Women are no longer weak and one should never make a mistake of considering them a material to be used and throw away. They have complete right to live their life in a free, joyful, and secured environment. Give them that freedom and let India be a safe country for women to reside. 


What is Sexual Harassment-


Sexual harassment, is intimidation, bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors. In some contexts or circumstances, sexual harassment is illegal. It includes a range of behavior from seemingly mild transgressions and annoyances to actual sexual abuse or sexual assault. Sexual harassment is a form of illegal employment discrimination in many countries, and is a form of abuse (sexual and psychological) and bullying. For many businesses, preventing sexual harassment, and defending employees from sexual harassment charges, have become key goals of legal decision-making. In contrast, many scholars complain that sexual harassment in education remains a "forgotten secret," with educators and administrators refusing to admit the problem exists in their schools, or accept their legal and ethical responsibilities to deal with it.


Harassment Situations- 

Sexual harassments can occur in a variety of circumstances. Often, but not always, the harasser is in a position of power or authority over the victim (due to differences in age, or social, political, educational or employment relationships). Forms of harassment relationships include:

• The harasser can be anyone, such as a client, a co-worker, a parent or legal guardian, a teacher or professor, a student, a friend, or a stranger.

• The victim does not have to be the person directly harassed but can be anyone who finds the behavior offensive and is affected by it.

• Adverse affects on the target are common

• The victim can be any gender. The harasser can be any gender.

• The harasser does not have to be of the opposite sex.

• The harasser may be completely unaware that his or her behavior is offensive or constitutes sexual harassment or may be completely unaware that his or her actions could be unlawful.

• Misunderstanding: It can result from a situation where one thinks he/she is making themselves clear, but is not understood the way they intended. The misunderstanding can either be reasonable or unreasonable. An example of unreasonable is when a man holds a certain stereotypical view of a woman such that he did not understand the woman’s explicit message to stop. 

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Relation Between Boy and Girl Means Only 'Sex' ?

Relation Between Boy and Girl Means Only 'Sex' ?

 By Tarun Gupta

Our body is made up of two elements: Physical body and Mind. Physically girls and boys are different but mentally they can have psychological similarities (common attitude, personality, traits, habits, interest, ambitions etc.) which are the building block of different relationships like pen pal, internet friendship, general friendship, love etc. Physical friendship often considered as sexual relationship but physical relationship has other dimension too i.e. romantic friendship.

Historically cross-sex friendships have been rare. This is because often men would labor in order to support themselves and their family, while women stayed at home and took care of the housework and children. The lack of contact led to men forming friendships exclusively with their colleagues, and women forming friendships with other stay-at-home mothers. However, as women attended schools more and as their presence in the workplace increased, the segregated friendship dynamic was altered, and cross-sex friendships began to increase. Cross-sex friendship has once been a sign of gender deviance, but now it has been loosened because of the increase of gender equality in schools and the workplace, along with certain interests and pastimes such as sports. However, cross-sex friendships aren't always a socially accepted norm of amity and some of those friendships could develop into romantic feelings.

The relationship between two opposite sexes which usually exclude sexual desires are between siblings, cousins, mother and son, father and daughter and platonic friendship. The relationships in which sexual desire can be, but not compulsorily can be romantic friendship, emotional intimacy, love and fling(fling relationships have very high chances of going to bed but not necessarily).

Examples where there was a non sexual relationship between two opposite sexes.

1. Jesus Christ and Mary Magdalene

2. Mahatma Gandhi and Kasturba Gandhi (after Mahatma Gandhi took Bramcharya)

3. Radha and Lord Krishna.

4. Jawahar lal Nehru and Mrs Mountbatten.

Mahatma Gandhi have many non sexual friendship with females some of them are Kanu Gandhi, Manu Gandhi, Sarladevi, Sushila Nayar, Abha etc. which he told in his biography, but still every called him saint, father of nation, this implies non sexual male female relationship have some social acceptance too.

But, many physiological experiments reveal different aspects of human psychology

Truth is much more bitter and will not be digested untill you remove all teachings given by society. This thing might remove foundation stones of all religion and values.

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By Satnam Chahal Singh

I think i could be wrong but don't think i am totally satisfied with my sayings.

Sex is an Integral part of a boy girl relationship, otherwise it is not a relationship at all, only a friendship. Sex is an important part of many people's relationships. Not just sexual intercourse ('going all the way') but kissing and touching each other for pleasure.

If the relationship is fair, boy and girl can live without sex. Well, depends on what kind of guy he is and what kind of girl she is.

When love is true, chances of physical relationship are sure and if they perform it, they will be satisfied with once or two occasions. But lust for sex will never be there in their mind.

Of course sex can happen, but you might be tempted at times. But i mean, if you are religious and believe in Waiting until Marriage then you shouldn't have a hard time. But then Again if you have never grown up around god and all it might be hard.

Sex is not everything because some times you like a person for which there is no reason. Here Sex is not everything.

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It's the time to see definition of time !

Time is the most valuable commodity in life that we have. It’s more valuable than money. You can make more money, but you can’t make more time. When you woke up this morning, God gave you a present called “today.” And with that gift comes a responsibility. The Scripture tells us to redeem the time, to make the most of every opportunity. That simply means don’t let it go to waste. Don’t live this day unfocused, unhappy, negative, or defeated. Make the most of every day. God has entrusted you with His life. He has breathed His very breath into you. He has put gifts and talents on the inside of you. You have seeds of greatness deposited in you. You’re a person of destiny, and you have an assignment and a purpose to fulfill.

I encourage you today to evaluate how you are spending your time. Refocus your life. Let go of any distractions. Shake off any self-pity, any discouragement, any disappointments of the past and run your race with purpose. Be careful how you live and redeem the time so that you can fulfill the destiny He has prepared for you.

Nature and definition of time

Time appears to be more puzzling than space because it seems to flow or pass or else people seem to advance through it. But the passage or advance seems to be unintelligible. The question of how many seconds per second time flows (or one advances through it) is obviously an absurd one, for it suggests that the flow or advance comprises a rate of change with respect to something else--to a sort of hypertime. But if this hypertime itself flows, then a hyper-hypertime is required, and so on, ad infinitum. Again, if the world is thought of as spread out in space-time, it might be asked whether human consciousness advances up a timelike direction of this world and, if so, how fast; whether future events pop into existence as the "now" reaches them or are there all along; and how such changes in space-time can be represented, since time is already within the picture. (Ordinary change can, of course, be represented in a space-time picture: for example, a particle at rest is represented by a straight line and an oscillating particle by a wavy line.)

 In the face of these difficulties, philosophers tend to divide into two sorts: the "process philosophers" and the "philosophers of the manifold." Process philosophers--such as A. N. W., an Anglo-American metaphysician who died in 1947--hold that the flow of time (or human advance through it) is an important metaphysical fact. Like the French intuitionist H. B., they may hold that this flow can be grasped only by nonrational intuition. Bergson even held that the scientific concept of time as a dimension actually misrepresents reality. Philosophers of the manifold hold that the flow of time or human advance through time is an illusion. They argue, for example, that words such as past, future, and now, as well as the tenses of verbs, are indexical expressions that refer to the act of their own utterance. Hence, the alleged change of an event from being future to being past is an illusion. To say that the event is future is to assert that it is later than this utterance; then later yet, when one says that it is in the past, he or she asserts that it is earlier than that other utterance. Past and future are not real predicates of events in this view; and change in respect of them is not a genuine change.

Again, although process philosophers