Relation Between Boy and Girl Means Only 'Sex' ?

 By Tarun Gupta

Our body is made up of two elements: Physical body and Mind. Physically girls and boys are different but mentally they can have psychological similarities (common attitude, personality, traits, habits, interest, ambitions etc.) which are the building block of different relationships like pen pal, internet friendship, general friendship, love etc. Physical friendship often considered as sexual relationship but physical relationship has other dimension too i.e. romantic friendship.

Historically cross-sex friendships have been rare. This is because often men would labor in order to support themselves and their family, while women stayed at home and took care of the housework and children. The lack of contact led to men forming friendships exclusively with their colleagues, and women forming friendships with other stay-at-home mothers. However, as women attended schools more and as their presence in the workplace increased, the segregated friendship dynamic was altered, and cross-sex friendships began to increase. Cross-sex friendship has once been a sign of gender deviance, but now it has been loosened because of the increase of gender equality in schools and the workplace, along with certain interests and pastimes such as sports. However, cross-sex friendships aren't always a socially accepted norm of amity and some of those friendships could develop into romantic feelings.

The relationship between two opposite sexes which usually exclude sexual desires are between siblings, cousins, mother and son, father and daughter and platonic friendship. The relationships in which sexual desire can be, but not compulsorily can be romantic friendship, emotional intimacy, love and fling(fling relationships have very high chances of going to bed but not necessarily).

Examples where there was a non sexual relationship between two opposite sexes.

1. Jesus Christ and Mary Magdalene

2. Mahatma Gandhi and Kasturba Gandhi (after Mahatma Gandhi took Bramcharya)

3. Radha and Lord Krishna.

4. Jawahar lal Nehru and Mrs Mountbatten.

Mahatma Gandhi have many non sexual friendship with females some of them are Kanu Gandhi, Manu Gandhi, Sarladevi, Sushila Nayar, Abha etc. which he told in his biography, but still every called him saint, father of nation, this implies non sexual male female relationship have some social acceptance too.

But, many physiological experiments reveal different aspects of human psychology

Truth is much more bitter and will not be digested untill you remove all teachings given by society. This thing might remove foundation stones of all religion and values.

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By Satnam Chahal Singh

I think i could be wrong but don't think i am totally satisfied with my sayings.

Sex is an Integral part of a boy girl relationship, otherwise it is not a relationship at all, only a friendship. Sex is an important part of many people's relationships. Not just sexual intercourse ('going all the way') but kissing and touching each other for pleasure.

If the relationship is fair, boy and girl can live without sex. Well, depends on what kind of guy he is and what kind of girl she is.

When love is true, chances of physical relationship are sure and if they perform it, they will be satisfied with once or two occasions. But lust for sex will never be there in their mind.

Of course sex can happen, but you might be tempted at times. But i mean, if you are religious and believe in Waiting until Marriage then you shouldn't have a hard time. But then Again if you have never grown up around god and all it might be hard.

Sex is not everything because some times you like a person for which there is no reason. Here Sex is not everything.

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